2015 Memory Box Donation

First, I want to apologize for not updating the blog sooner. I am great about posting when I want donations but not so great about the follow-up and for that I am truly sorry.

THANK YOU to everyone who donated this year!!! 

Because of you I was able to again donate 20 memory boxes to Mercy Hospital. The staff there could not say enough about what these boxes mean to the families who receive them.

Our crazy 2 year old was not excited about having her picture taken.

We made the donation on July 10th, the 3rd angelversary for Harper. It was super special this year because the nurse who was by my side the entire time we were in the hospital delivering Harper was there and we got to see her again. She truly was a God send at that time for us. She was amazing and I pray for her daily. So it was SO great to see her on that special day.

After the donation we went to Sea Life Minnesota at the Mall of America and had lunch at The Hardrock Cafe. This year was a little different for us and I am actually a little disappointed. Our life is so busy and revolves around our living children I felt like we didn't do enough to honor Harper on what would have been her 3rd birthday. We didn't even do a balloon release this year. It kind of felt like a regular day.

Next year we will do better little one. I promise you. (More on that for another time...)

End of March Update

I just wanted to reach out to everyone and give you a quick update on The Harper Project for 2015. 

First of all, I want to thank everyone for the donations I have already received. I will never be able to properly express my gratitude for your support in this endeavor. 

Here is a list of all the items still needed. The first number in the parenthesis is the number of items I have received, the second number is the total number of the item needed. For example, (4/10), I have received 4 out of 10 of the item listed. 

(20/20) Flower seed packets (Forget me nots are a great idea)

(16/20) Small journals

(6/20) Small plush animals (Teddy bears or lambs are great options)

(20/20) Small picture frames (no larger than 4x6)

(0/20) Small photo album (for single 4x6 pictures)

(20/20) Small keepsake items such as angel figurines, pendants, etc. (Etsy is a great resource.)

(5/20) Small handmade baby blankets

(0/20) Knit layettes or preemie size gowns

(10/10) Headbands for girls

(10/10) Small bow ties for boys

(0/20) Hand/Foot clay impression kits

(0/20) Memorial items geared specifically towards fathers
(unlimited needed) Blank cards the staff can send to families on anniversaries

If  you need help with ideas, please check out my Amazon wish list HERE. Or please feel free to contact me at theharperlynnproject@gmail.com with any questions or ideas. 

And please don't forget that the last day to make donations is April 30th 2015. After that date I will use monetary donations to purchase items that are needed to fill the boxes and supplies to make the actual boxes. 

Help get the word out about The Harper Project

If anyone is interested in helping to get the word out about The Harper Project I have two different flyers available. One is a single sided, one page, black & white flyer that can be hung on a bulletin board or handed out. The other is a double sided, tri-fold, color brochure that can be passed out.

The Harper Project informational Flyer

The Harper Project informational brochure. Side 1

The Harper Project informational brochure. Side 2

Please let me know if you are interested in receiving one or both of these flyers. I can either email you a PDF and you can print them yourself or let me know how many you would like and I can print them out and mail them to you directly. theharperlynnproject@gmail.com

Also, I updated the website with a P.O. Box that can be used for donations. The address is:

The Harper Project
P.O. Box 631
Hastings, MN 55033 

The Harper Project 2015 Launch

For those of you who may be new to The Harper Project, my name is Sara and on July 10th, 2012 my daughter, Harper, was stillborn. It is the single most devastating thing my husband and I have ever experienced. But out of the devastation The Harper Project was created. 

The goal of The Harper Project is to reach out to families in the hospital who are going through the pain of losing their baby by donating memory boxes, care items and support in the hopes of bringing a small amount of comfort and healing to these families. 

This year I am kicking the project off a little earlier. I am expecting and due the day after Harper's angelversary so I'm hoping to get the boxes finished well ahead of our planned donation day, July 10th, 2015.

I've made a few small changes to the way I'm doing things this year, mainly for my own ease this year but also because I learned what did or didn't work last year.

Click here to learn how you can help The Harper Project for 2015.

First and foremost I want to thank everyone who helped make The Harper Project a huge success in 2014. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! Whether it was donations of items, money or just encouraging thoughts and prayers, I am forever grateful. It is because of all of YOU that I was able to donate 20 memory boxes and 10 Mommy Care Kits to Mercy Hospital on July 10th, the second anniversary of Harper being born silent into the world. 

Loading up the minivan with memory boxes & mommy care kits. 

It felt good to do something positive on a day that is so sad for our family. We dropped ofs the donations and then spent the day together as a family with our daughter Stella in our arms and Harper in our hearts. 

We stopped for a picnic lunch.

Later that evening we release balloons with letters attached that we had written for Harper. We did this the first year and it's a tradition we are hoping to carry on. (To be honest the actual act of releasing balloons kind of bothers me. I always feel like it's littering and worry about animals getting caught up in the stings. So if anyone has idea's of other things we could do I am open to hearing them. But I do like watching the balloons float up and I usually watch until I can't see them anymore. I'm always curious as to where they end up.)

Celebrate with the angels!

The Harper Project This Year:

I am going to try and get things started a little early this time around. I am hoping to have all 20 memory boxes completed before June 14th. Honestly, last year was a little bit of a learning curve for me and I'm sure as each year passes I will change things and adjust them to what works the best.

So be on the look out for updates on the project coming soon!!!

If you have any questions in the meantime feel free to email me at theharperlynnproject@gmail.com